Read Description: Men, According to Prostitutes by Chinki Sinha
"...in her lifetime it was non to be. I am non to blame.
Literature is a summons to descend to hell,
Which I obeyed joyfully, I'll not deny it,
And from which no one finds a fashion back once again
I am not to arraign. How much pain in the earth.
Just neither practise I blame you for anything.
Everything happens by accident, by fate.
How marvellous life is. How badly we live it."
-Boris Pasternak
Merely you could even ascend to hell. That afternoon, I climbed the dark staircase again, paused at the offset floor. There used to be an old homo ironing clothes near the landing. In that location were nighttime rooms with untold personal histories. But at present, they take cleaved the walls. The light hurt. I touched the grimy walls. Information technology had been years since I concluding ventured into these rooms where they lived splitting time and religions, identities and emotions. Over the years that I have known them, I know they even puncture truths.
I tried to re-imagine Kamathipura's Gully Number one and these three rooms where I first met them. I learnt that one should never abandon stories. Five years later on, I returned again. Time lapse. Does time lapse e'er? Memories are some other matter.
Information technology was a identify of cheap sex and strange truths. It was the space yous went to find something unavailable in the other earth. I came once once again to disorganise my sense. I like disruptions. Literature is indeed summons to hell. And I never constitute a way back over again.
An bearding person in one case wrote to me saying a story of mine set in this brothel led to loss of innocence. I recollect he had referred to Fyodor Dostoevsky's Sonia Marmeladov in Criminal offense and Penalization. The novel had tested the moral problems of urban life in St Petersburg in the 19th century.
For then long that I have met the prostitutes, I have remembered the character of Sonia. I take been accused of having contempt for my subjects. But and so, how do nosotros discount the bear upon of external forces in perceptions and perspectives of a character? The earth, so far as I know information technology, has existed in shades of grey. I could have written to the writer that I lost my innocence, also. That's why I know there's no going dorsum.
I noticed the black and the aureate fish in the aquarium. Three years and a little more isn't a long time. But how tin ane measure time?
"The world of Namdeo Dhasal'southward verse - the world known as Golpitha in the urban center of Mumbai - begins where the borderland of Bombay's white-collar world ends and a no-man's country opens up. This is a world where the dark is reversed into the twenty-four hours, where stomachs are empty or half-empty, of desperation against death, of the adjacent solar day'southward anxieties, of bodies left over after being consumed past shame and sensibility, of insufferably flowing sewages, of diseased young bodies lying by the gutters braving the cold past folding upwards their knees to their bellies, of the jobless, of beggars, of pickpockets, of holy mendicants, of neighbourhood tough guys and pimps," writes Dilip Chitre.
This is that world. The poet, who loved in these parts, lived here. He was a witness and a chronicler. Suffering isn't about victims and perpetrators. Information technology is more almost reflections in the aftermath of events and impulses.
I hadn't gone at that place to write a story this fourth dimension. That afternoon I stepped out of a hotel room on the 14th floor in Lower Parel where I had been staying to nourish the fashion calendar week. Glamour, glitter, gossip and headaches. Each night that I found myself alone in my room, I looked out of the window. The body of water stretched in the horizon. I saw Haji Ali's shrine and was reminded of those who had once prayed with me at the shrine. And then many times I had been in the city but never turned into these lanes. Information technology is okay to disappear for sometime. At least I wasn't guilty of the crime of forgetting.
In 2012, I offset went to Kamathipura with Gauri Sawant, a transgender who had adopted a niggling girl. She lived in Malvani suburb of Bombay. Over the side by side couple of years, I kept going to the brothel where eight eunuchs lived together.
At the time, the redevelopment had just started. Towers were coming up. The beginning of the end of an era. I am not making a example for nostalgia. It would be a weak one in whatsoever instance.
Bombay is a city that eats up the bounding main. It is always hungry, forever looking to expand but sometimes, the sea surges forward in its fury.
The waves crashing against the rocks…
The waves... they are unbound and strong and notwithstanding frustrate themselves trying to take over the urban center.
The city, its buildings stand tall overlooking, assessing the waves.
The sea is never calm.
Perchance it takes from the city'southward throbbing energy. So full that it engulfs all that come into that always-sprawling metropolis, calculation suburbs after suburbs to its surface area, claiming the sea, too.
Those who come to this metropolis are to be consumed, taken abroad, swept away. The sea does not terminate. Nor does the appetite of land.
Inwards, it gobbles upwards what remains of the by. It is forever redeveloping, overwriting stories and histories. Kamathipura is near bilocated. From its crumbling chawls, 1 can see the tall glass and steel structures almost piercing the clouds. Simply perhaps land-starved cities like Mumbai must reclaim in order to go on.
They know no other way. Here, nothing is subtle. Flyovers cutting through buildings near. So much and then that if y'all stretched your mitt from one of the windows, yous could affect the gravel, near touch the cars as they whizzed past. Information technology is not for me to dissect the lives of the migrants. I am 1 of them.
***
I called Zeenath Pasha, who I had kickoff met in 2012 in the brothel as she sabbatum in her bed holding a baby and dressed in black. I chosen her after I had paid homage to the saint who lies buried in the sea. I tied a knot. Exercise I wish for things? I don't know.
That voice. The barbarous tone of it at hearing my name.
"How can I forget you? You lot fabricated my life hell?" she said.
"Can I come?" I asked.
"Yeah. I alive in the aforementioned place," she said.
Gully Number one in Kamathipura is no longer the same. At that place's the construction. There are those out of context glass and steel towers rising out of nowhere. And and then, there is this underworld.
For its denizens, an era is almost endmost in. Pocket-sized clay Ganpati statues inside a small workshop, bluish tarpaulin sheets lying around in anticipation of rain. A few women waiting for customers. We got lost in the maze of lanes that are lined with crumbling chawls or tiled living quarters that are packed with women unaware of another looking out of the car window.
But I have been here before. I am scanning for familiar faces. It is a Friday. And and then I noticed the piffling shop and the staircase. It was here. I hesitated at the landing. A voice called from the window.
"Come up," it said.
Things of memory. I noticed the blackness and the gold fish in the aquarium. Three years and a picayune more isn't a long time. But how can i measure fourth dimension? Do you measure information technology by the clock or by the scale of memories?
They might have replaced the sometime fish with the new. But then, all fish swim the same mode in limited oceans - the aquarium. I didn't tap on it. Nothing had inverse in the room. Not even the photo of Zeenath in her youth wearing a wig and a sari. The ii babies on the affiche that hangs to a higher place the door are however smiling. And so many things frozen in the gap of time. Why waste material time clock-watching?
She offered me black tea. I gladly accepted. I asked her if she was doing okay. Over the years, I accept suspected that Zeenath was tipping over towards the other world - of the unreal, that which is not bound by longitudes that demark the earth from spilling over into black holes of the infinite appetite. She spoke of gold and argent and of lovers and betrayals. The grand emotions of those that are left behind to imagine. She spoke of the magnificent palaces that belonged to eunuchs in Hyderabad, her native city. She spoke of the gold jewellery a filmmaker promised her. She spoke of everything in a dazed state.
In Crime and Penalization, Dostoevsky describes Sonia's dress at her father's deathbed as "strange indeed was her sudden appearance in that room, in the heart of beggary, rags, decease, and desperation. She, too, was in rags. She was cheaply dressed, simply tricked out gutter-fashion, according to the rules and taste of that special globe whose shameful purpose was all too apparent".
Zeenath wasn't wearing her wig. The rest were dressed in "gutter-fashion" according to the tastes of that special world.
Khaja Bi walked in. She stood and smiled.
"Where had you gone?" she asked.
"Away," I said.
Others came in. Kajal, whose lover who lived upstairs died. She said the floods washed him away. She has a new lover.
Replacements. Substitutes.
"You can't mourn forever," she said.
Merely in one of the berths in the brothel, Khaja Bi was lying down.
"Why don't you switch on the fan?" I asked.
"I don't feel very well," she said.
She is nevertheless in mourning. Her story was told to me past Zeenath when I had wanted to chronicle the lovers of the whores. She had been in honey with a local shopkeeper and they lived together until he passed away then she returned to the Ramabai Chawl. He had wanted to marry her. She had refused saying he could live with her but eunuchs who have "transgressed the natural society of sexuality" had no correct to ruin a man's life. Love was another thing. Information technology was wild and untrammelled in its freedom. Love was bound past gender.
Over the years, many of the brothels in this lane shut downwardly. I remembered the evenings of business as usual when eunuchs lined the street in their garish clothes. They looked beautiful in the diffused calorie-free, which softened the coarseness of the skin. They looked invincible so.
But they were vulnerable during the day. Similar Zeenath, who wore no wig and was dressed in a imperial maxi. There was a time when I was granted an audience after she had dressed. She looked like an "almost woman" only on an afternoon many years ago, I had walked in and there was nobody except Khaja Bi and on the walls, I commencement noticed the wigs hanging. Truths are mundane. Deceptions are grand.
I was told "never carelessness a story" in college long ago. That'southward what I accept followed through the years. It has been five years since I first went to meet in this infamous red light area of Bombay. A hijra, she would article of clothing a wig earlier actualization in front of me. Over the years, she stopped that ritual. This meant I had been accustomed. That'south what stories demand. Merely acceptance is a painful procedure. We are also at the mercy of the others.
***
I remembered the afternoons of lying on the former bed with Nisha and Zeenath and talking well-nigh fashion and boyfriends. They asked me once again if I found someone.
"Get married," they said.
"Why?" I asked.
"Considering it is a lonely life," Zeenath said.
I couldn't exist the reporter. I couldn't be one of them. I wasn't from their earth. I was getting crushed in betwixt identities.
It is the existential humdrum of such conversations that take forever led me to these rooms. I know that I was afraid once for a long time of hitting the stop all past myself. But and so, my female parent said that some of united states are meant to be on our own. Solitude is an inheritance.
I asked about Saleha, her adopted daughter. She is now at a boarding school in a Mumbai distant suburb. She is at present seven and sports a bob. She is doing well, Nisha said.
Their identities are mutually incompatible. Even and then every bit she sat in front end of me in a majestic maxi, her bald caput and the little traces of stubble were giveaways to the bridge her life has been betwixt this and that. Her approximation of Zeenath's identity is through a wig and makeup and a soul that defied gender binaries, oscillated between the possibility of reinventing her own body and the impossibility of the endeavours. Is at that place a vocabulary to understand such creations?
The transition from one gender identity construct to some other is looked upon with disgust. The immutability of the rights of people like her reveals our ain fears of the unknown. Forever I tried to empathise what it meant to be Zeenath. I couldn't.
I found authors who had pushed boundaries. Like William T Vollmann. Dolores - a woman whom Vollmann created and thereby controlled, was the writer'due south way of understanding a sex worker's life. Writers are oftentimes accused of patronising the prostitutes.
Dolores was his alter ego. He one time said: "Dolores belonged entirely to me - was in fact my construct."
And yet Dolores bankrupt gratuitous from her creator. The manner Zeenath broke free from me although I wasn't her creator. I had only found her.
I couldn't empathise her sadness. It was alien to me. Similar how Dolores became alien to Vollmann, who cross-dressed every bit an act of dare. Yet he couldn't be that woman he created. Like how Zeenath couldn't exist the human being she had been or the adult female she had wanted to be.
I couldn't exist the reporter. I couldn't be ane of them. I wasn't from their globe. I was getting crushed in between identities. That was the only way I continued with them.
"In the backyard of love, all you discover is fruits of fear and disgust. An infinite and sovereign nothingness stalks us all," Dhasal writes.
***
The cages and windows where sex workers displayed themselves are no longer in that location. In fact, a lot of things are no longer there in this fading scarlet light district set up up in 1785 by the British. A few hundred prostitutes remain in the 16 lanes. From Zeenath's window, you tin see the high rises.
"Nobody comes here anymore," she said. "Everything is over."
They had lived in this terminal ward for too long. Zeenath lost too many friends to HIV AIDS. Brothels like these were places where men came to release themselves of the burden of their fetishes. There were abuses and scars. There was dear and loss. There was also a strange kind of peace in these rooms.
In that location were in these lanes all kinds of people - pimps and prostitutes, hijras, drug addicts, petty criminals, gangsters, mujra dancers, beauticians, immigrant labourers, householders, etc. I asked Zeenath well-nigh Suman and Munni, the 2 street prostitutes she had made me run into in one case. Munni was nevertheless around. Suman could have died, she said.
I looked for others. I had rescued me from a room where an old man, who was believed to exist a police informer, had tried to lock me in saying only he could atomic number 82 me to whores and their lovers.
Dhasal's Golpitha reminded me of a prison house I one time went to in Buxar in Bihar where men on expiry row or serving life imprisonment waited for null in particular. That was the prison where they made the noose. They said the moisture in the air was perfect for information technology.
Information technology also reminded me of graveyards where metaphors abound. When the new world takes over as part of the ambitious redevelopment of the city, these stories will be buried here. Zeenath and her eight hijras would move out. For now, they are here considering this is the only place that gave them refuge.
For a long time, we saturday in that room facing each other. I took my get out.
I remembered the poet. He is dead at present.
He had once written, "This is practise number ki dunia. This is lesser of the world. This is where my poems come up from… I'll prove it to anyone that wants to know what life is like here. I grew up here. I accept a bond with these people. They are my people - these lumpen; I am one of them. My poetry is about life hither."
At least, I had tried.
Zeenath and her eight hijras would exist gone soon. Nosotros promised to meet each other in Ajmer for the Urs. There is always a way of finding each other. Last year, she had asked a filmmaker in Ajmer while he was filming Kinnar Qawwali if he knew me. He did and he messaged me well-nigh the encounter.
It was enough that Zeenath remembered me. And when anyone remembers you, it is important that you observe them once again. That is an act of faith. We must always go along the faith.
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